Sunday, October 2, 2011

Obituary


C. Ramsy Unruh  

Peacefully on Thursday, September 29, 2011, Ramsy Unruh, loving husband to Shannon and father to Katy, Tom and Jane, passed away just 16 days short of his 50th birthday. 

 Also left to treasure Ramsy’s memory are his mother Katy Unruh of Morden, MB; siblings Phil (Diane) Unruh of Carman, MB; Tim (Jeanette) Unruh of Whistler, BC; Noni (Phil) Goertzen of Langley, BC; Christine (Evan) Jennings of North Vancouver, BC ; parents-in-law Myrna Foster and Lloyd and Larraine Ratzlaff of Saskatoon, SK; sister-in-law Sheri (Rob) Porrelli of Saskatoon, SK; and many nieces and nephews.  He was predeceased by his father Dr. Cornel Unruh.
 
Ramsy was born and raised in Morden, MB, but his musical interests led him around North America for training and work.  He met Shannon while teaching music in Moose Jaw, SK, and they married in 1992.  He became the music pastor at a church in Kelowna, BC that year, and then took the same position at a Winnipeg church in 1998.  Through leading worship and working closely with his volunteers, he developed an interest in helping people with the highs and lows of life and accepted a job as senior pastor at Community Fellowship Church in Newton, MB.

Ramsy loved and was loved by children, and he was delighted when each of his kids were born.  They enjoyed many adventures with him: bike riding, camping, bowling, driving to the Portage Tim Horton’s for donuts early in the morning.  When they were small, he used to take them to Revy for Timbits and tell them stories he made up while they ate.  He loved Shannon dearly and told and showed her that all the time in hundreds of thoughtful ways.

He was creative, adventurous, brave, sometimes stubborn, both gentle and bold, willing to admit when he was wrong and to learn from his mistakes.  He was not perfect, nor did he pretend to be.  He loved Jesus passionately, and delighted in his work as a pastor.  He was never afraid to cry in public, and his boisterous laugh rang out in many a meeting or social event.

Ramsy endured the trial of his brain tumor with grace and humor, seldom showing self-pity, often thinking of others and concerned about how his illness created work for them.  He often expressed wonder over the fact that people were interested in how he was doing or sent gifts or cards. 

He died at home in his own bed, with Shannon and his three children around him, for which we are thankful.  He will be sorely, deeply missed. We, his family, are so grateful for the outpouring of support from friends, church family, the extended Oakville community, medical network, and even strangers, that made this difficult journey bearable.  Their many kindnesses will not be forgotten.


Viewing and Visitation will take place at Newton Community Fellowship Church from 7:00 to 8:00 pm on Wednesday, October 5, 2011. 
Funeral Service will be held on Thursday, October 6, 2011 at the William Glesby Centre, Portage la Prairie at 1:00 pm.

As expressions of sympathy, if friends so wish, donations may be made in Ramsy’s memory to Mully Children’s Family Charitable Foundation (MCFCF), 864 Hurontario Street, Collingwood, ON  L9Y 3Z1 or to Central Plains Cancer Care Services, 318 Sask.Ave.E, Portage la Prairie, MB, R1N OK8.

A tree will be planted in memory and cared for
by McKenzies Portage Funeral Chapel  857-4021
A message can be left in the on-line guest book at www.mckenziesportagefuneralchapel.com



9 comments:

  1. Beautiful, Shannon. It's a wonderful sketch, beautifully and generously drawn.

    Sheri

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  2. We have been thinking and praying for your family Shannon. May you find peace and comfort at this time.
    Leah Carlson

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  3. Wow, very saddened to hear this. I only found out about Ramsy's illness a short time ago. I started thinking back to some of the memories I had of him, especially our trip to the Philippines in 1990. I still have part of a video from our choir tour (90 or 91). Ramsy was a good man. It's comforting to know he's with the Lord that he served.

    Shannon, may the God of all comfort fill you with His mercy and grace.

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  4. Shannon, tears and prayers are all I have to offer. I have been following your blog for several months, since my mom shared it with me. I have been impressed by your strength and steadfastness of faith. You are such a beautiful woman of God. I have so many positive memories of you guys from Willow Park Church days. My heart is so sad that Ramsy's time on this earth couldn't be longer, though his impact was certainly widespread. Although I know that he is healthy and celebrating with Jesus, my heart aches for your family. Sending you hugs from BC! ~Melanie Penninga

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  5. We are praying for you and your kids as you miss him. We love you tons and are thinking of you.
    Love,
    Carla and Matt

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  6. Shannon, I have been thinking and praying for all of you since Merle told me about your struggles awhile ago, and I am so sorry for your loss.
    It always amazed me that you could blog about everything you guys were going through, but I am sure that although it must have been difficult at times, it was probably also a great outlet for you.
    My thoughts and prayers are still with you...
    Michelle (Milton) Rogalski

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  7. Ramsy is my brother in Christ and my friend.
    Until we meet again.
    To Shannon, Katy, Tom and Jane: I can only imagine what you are feeling, but know that I am praying for you.
    Frank Buttenaar

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  8. Hi Shannon,
    We are sorry to hear about Ramsy's passing. Absent from the body, present with the Lord.
    Our sympathies to you and your family in your loss.
    We met you and Ramsy at cancer care in the summer, I have a brain tumor, Orit introduced us, and we chatted and prayed together.
    Words are not enough,
    Lonnie & Shelley

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    1. Hi Lonnie and Shelley,

      Lovely to hear from you. We had a good time meeting you, and I have often wondered how you are faring. Thanks so much for your kindness.

      Shannon

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